<p>You ask coaching questions, listen in the coaching position and ask questions again. Your husband sets more and more ambitious goals and goes for them. Your children are becoming more aware of what they want and are learning to find opportunities where others have a lot of "buts". Your lifestyle is getting closer and closer to your deepest values.</p> <p>Does that happen?</p> <p>You're worried about your husband</p> <p>You want to discuss his work situation, offer advice. With the best intentions start a conversation and run into a deaf wall, or even a sharp resentment: "Do not get in the wrong business. And you yourself are not sure that you know the right solution.</p> <p>You want change</p> <p>You feel that modern life is rich in opportunities that pass you by. You try to discuss with your husband how you can build a future together. The response is a silent back and eyes lost in some gadget.</p> <p>Believe in your husband's potential</p> <p>Your husband is capable of much more than what he has and does, but attempts to talk about it, to put it mildly, do not arouse interest.How to communicate with children? You want your children to grow up responsible and flexible and be able to find their place in life. To be more confident and successful than you. But unwittingly communicate with them in the old patterns.</p> <p>Purposefulness in children</p> <p>You want to teach your children to be as determined as an arrow. But you yourself are often uncoordinated, like yeast dough.</p> <p>You long for authentic intimacy</p> <p>You long for true intimacy, dream of becoming like-minded with your family. But so far the conversations are mostly about household matters.</p>