<p>This course is for you if:<br /> You want to be gentle, warm, playful, but instead you are sarcastic, criticizing, clinging to small things and joking unkindly.<br /> You yourself do not like to be like this, so behave and feel. But you can't forgive and forget. The atmosphere in the family is heavy. Tension is in the air.<br /> You want to spend a quiet evening, but suddenly you again express a critical remark to your husband. You don't realize how it came out. The evening's ruined, your husband's withdrawn.<br /> Your husband hints at sex, and you know how important it is to him. But you refuse, increasing the distance between you because you carry a grudge. And when there's resentment, there's no passion.<br /> You walk around in silence with your lips pressed together. You're hoping your husband will come to you, understand, make things right. But he pretends not to notice. Your resentment grows, and your loneliness in the couple grows.<br /> Calm conversation, nothing to herald the storm. Suddenly you remember your long-standing resentment and get angry again, and express it to your husband. He is perplexed and angry back: well, why are you talking about it now? That's when it was!"</p>